[ Ages are wild and wonky things, but Cain gets the general psychology of it for sure. He just hasn't felt that way in... possibly ever because the distinction wasn't so big back when he really was that age. ]

Maybe when you got here and Janet wasn't?

[ It's perhaps the gentlest idea he can pitch. He doesn't know all the sordid details of Dodger's past, but there's no way it goes well considering the rapid backslide he apparently does sometime in the next few years where his memories are missing. ]

Yeah, first names do have a way of making things more friendly and personal. Jamie it is, then.