[This seems to be a reoccurring theme between Alec and Rey. Both of them talking about guilt, and how they needed to move on to keep themselves from getting sick with grief. But do either of them listen to themselves or each other? Nope.]

I don't think you would be ruining it for Jace by bringing it up, but it's a matter of when and how you do it.

[Because timing and tone make a big difference in how you deliver news to someone, or even bring up a sensitive topic.

...And does she want to go over? Yes.]

..I'll be there soon. I just..need to get away for a little bit.