That's fine. I think after something like that it's not unreasonable that you'd think he left willingly without saying a word.
I'm just saying, you should keep in mind that it might not have been his own conscious choice to leave. It helps a little, I think. It helped me, at least.
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't move on. You can and should cherish the time you spent together, but there's no point in just sitting around and waiting. Anyway, you were asking how long you should wait, but no one can answer that for you. We all have our own grieving process, it's not like some switch turns off when you hit N number of days or months. You have to decide for yourself, figure out how you feel, and if you're ready, try to meet other people and move on. Have a bit of fun at first, maybe. Sometimes you might not be ready for a relationship but there's no harm in fooling around some.
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I'm just saying, you should keep in mind that it might not have been his own conscious choice to leave. It helps a little, I think. It helped me, at least.
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't move on. You can and should cherish the time you spent together, but there's no point in just sitting around and waiting. Anyway, you were asking how long you should wait, but no one can answer that for you. We all have our own grieving process, it's not like some switch turns off when you hit N number of days or months. You have to decide for yourself, figure out how you feel, and if you're ready, try to meet other people and move on. Have a bit of fun at first, maybe. Sometimes you might not be ready for a relationship but there's no harm in fooling around some.