Okay so I guess I have a couple of things to ask about...
I'm in my first relationship, ever. We got engaged and it's been absolutely fantastic. I'm wildly in love with him and he's just as in love with me too. He spoils the shit out of me with gifts and stuff, but I feel a little inadequate because he's a lot harder to shop for than I am. Am I being selfish by not buying him as much shit? But at the same time, it's not like he's the sort of person to like just... random garbage.
My second question is a little more serious, I guess.
My fiance is really afraid of me going home without him. To a level that's almost phobic, but he doesn't really want to talk about it and I don't know how to comfort him even though I've told him again and again I won't leave... but he still worries. I love him so much, I don't want him to have to feel so worried all the time... How do I help?
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I'm in my first relationship, ever. We got engaged and it's been absolutely fantastic. I'm wildly in love with him and he's just as in love with me too. He spoils the shit out of me with gifts and stuff, but I feel a little inadequate because he's a lot harder to shop for than I am. Am I being selfish by not buying him as much shit? But at the same time, it's not like he's the sort of person to like just... random garbage.
My second question is a little more serious, I guess.
My fiance is really afraid of me going home without him. To a level that's almost phobic, but he doesn't really want to talk about it and I don't know how to comfort him even though I've told him again and again I won't leave... but he still worries. I love him so much, I don't want him to have to feel so worried all the time... How do I help?