winscenario: (sixty six.)
Captain James T. Kirk ([personal profile] winscenario) wrote in [community profile] riverview 2018-05-06 11:58 am (UTC)

You're never completely over someone you truly loved, I think. They'll always be important to you in some way, if nothing else for the importance they had in your life while they were part of it.

It's not a bad thing. Some people mark your life in a good way, and even when they're gone, what they leave behind is still good. The memories, the feeling. I wouldn't want to forget those things, even as I move on.

You should give it a try. Having fun, that is. Maybe with someone you get along with. You could just go out for drinks and dancing, without the expectation that you'll actually jump into bed with someone. If you do meet someone that catches your eye and you feel like it? Sure, go for it. But don't feel pressured into doing that just because it's a sign you've "moved on". You should do that when you're ready.

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