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[dothelokimotion]

[ The best way to deal with crippling revelations is to make inane posts. Well. Maybe not so inane since he is genuinely lost. ]

What is the different between a boyfriend and a boy friend? Are there various levels of friendship that are distinguished by sex? The online literature on this subject is perplexing in nature. How does one earn these titles?

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[deathkid]

By who? That seems dumb.

[dothelokimotion]

It is no slight to me. He simply preferred boyfriend and I did not grasp why.

[deathkid]

I guess you could say "lover" is more... temporary?

[ he's testing the word in his mouth and grimaces because that's not quite what he's going for. ]

"Lover" could mean a greater level of commitment involved. There's also "significant other."

[dothelokimotion]

I fail to see the point of having a romantic relationship if you are not fully committed.

[deathkid]

I agree. But some are meant to be permanent. Like a marriage. Others are brief. And some... never truly exist beyond whatever feelings you might have for the other person.

Maybe you should ask the person you're involved with how your relationship should be defined.

[dothelokimotion]

I am not involved. He merely spoke of an involvement he had with another.

[deathkid]

Hm... So this is about someone else being in a relationship. Maybe it's better to let them define it as they see fit. If it's romantic, then just accept it as that?

Sometimes, things don't need labels.

[dothelokimotion]

Oh, I don't particularly care how they label it. I'm mostly curious towards the whole phenomenon.

[deathkid]

[ shrugs. ] People are weird.

[dothelokimotion]

Yes. All the more reason to make sense of the weirdness.

[deathkid]

So why are you so interested in someone else's relationship?

[dothelokimotion]

I am simply interested in the logistics, not the relationship itself.