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[otherflash]

Hypothetically speaking, what would you do if the person you were in love with literally forgot you existed? Or, what if you remember having a life with this person except it technically never happened for them?

Would you try to build a connection with them? Would it even be fair to do that? Would you simply try to move on?

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[otherflash]

But is that even possible? I'd never try to force or manipulate her, but those experiences are still part of me.

[ Is it possible to separate things like that? How could he ever be sure those experiences and memories aren't influencing him? ]

[hellshot]

Then let them be a part of you.

Don't push them out onto the other person involved and let things happen how they will.

If you force experiences out onto others, you'll end up looking like a desperate fool.

[otherflash]

And what if I'm not sure I can do that? Do I just walk away?

[hellshot]

Who's feelings are more important?

Yours or theirs.

If you think they can handle the reality you lived and will be receptive to it, then push forward.
If you see even an inkling of a possibility that the future you've lived is too much for them to accept...

Walking away is likely the better option.