[ It's almost like talking to himself. There are minor differences in concerns, but it all amounts to the same thing. ]
But you don't like it, right? Because you've seen that there are other ways to be? That means you can change.
There's always going to be a part of you that remembers your past, and it's your responsibility to not let it take over again. Even if you did horrible things, I think you can be better than the people who raised you.
It's not perfect, but it's something. [ So much projecting, so much hopefulness. Adam doesn't know if any of this advice works. ]
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But you don't like it, right? Because you've seen that there are other ways to be? That means you can change.
There's always going to be a part of you that remembers your past, and it's your responsibility to not let it take over again. Even if you did horrible things, I think you can be better than the people who raised you.
It's not perfect, but it's something. [ So much projecting, so much hopefulness. Adam doesn't know if any of this advice works. ]
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it's a low bar, to be honest, but i think i still have a hard time clearing it
[ Rin relates to the advice, at least. This certainly sounds like someone speaking from experience. ]
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What helped me was finding good people I could strive to be like. Moving toward something instead of running away.
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but there's an unfortunate dearth of them back where i'm from
at least any who'd have a thing to do with me
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but i do appreciate your optimism.