It would be nice if...you could. I think there's always a way to escape it, even if it might seem impossible to do so. Destiny is something that you create by your own choices in life. So I don't think any person's destiny is really predetermined.
how can you know that your choices are really your own, and not overly influenced by what happened to you? how can you know that you're really yourself, and not what someone else has made you to be?
For what it's worth, I think if you're trying to avoid becoming something horrible, that says a lot about your character. There are people who choose to stay the way they are, even if it hurts others.
I never said it was easy. I have a role to play back at home. I could run from it, just leave everything behind, but I choose to stay. If people weren't born into that role but want to help, then they can help. Like I said, that kind of stuff doesn't matter.
i should've been clearer: i don't think you can erase your past or the things that made you into the person that you are. i have no idea what kind of circumstances you're talking about, but there's no changing them. and if they sucked (which i'm guessing they did since happy privileged people don't ask those kinds of questions in my experience) that can change the options available to you. i get that.
it's just that i don't believe in destiny this idea that there's just one path for everybody that's already been cosmically decided and nothing you decide can change that. i can't. i mean how could anybody believe in something like that and keep living?
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Destiny is a concept that is commonly attributed to events after they occur.
To possess as 'destiny' in the terms you are using is more akin to prophecy or divination. Both concepts are also viewed as being true only after the fact. Events may occur similar to the predictions but not all variables are set thus, the predicted outcome may not happen.
Whoever this was they seemed to be ignoring the entire issue of the circumstances of one birth mattering or viewing it as utterly inconsequential.
[ Rin was pretty vague, but this guy's on the exact right track. Avoiding the horrors of his own culture is part of it, but it's not the whole of his problems. ]
i'm afraid i already am something horrible
[ Not something he'd likely confess to anyone directly. He doesn't necessarily think he's the worst person alive, but he views his upbringing like a poison--one he's not sure that he can ever entirely excise. ]
because
what if that's the only way you've ever known how to be? what if that was taught to you as right? divine right, even.
it's more ... let's say you grew up being taught that the world around you was one shape, and then you learned later that maybe what you were taught was wrong
and even after you know, definitively, that you were taught wrongly
you can't shake that original definition
it starts to feel like maybe you're not capable of thinking right at all
[ Which strikes a little bit at the destiny concern, though his worry there is partly figurative, partly practical. ]
Then you take it from them. By any means necessary.
[ ... That sounds pretty scary, but. Gamora had been willing to give up everything to take her destiny back for herself, and she knows it was worth it – especially given the master she'd served. ]
[ He somehow finds this answer comforting, if only because it feels realistic. Feels, in a way, affirming--because that's certainly been his experience up until he showed up here. ]
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