you're right: i don't know you or your situation and maybe it is totally optimistic and naive
but in my experience, the worst people don't question themselves and they don't don't ask for input they just do what they want and take what they want and then justify it later with a lot of mumbo jumbo about having no other options
that's one of the reasons i don't believe in fate cuz it's the kind of bullshit concept that creeps use to move blame off themselves and make it sound like every awful thing they do was inevitable
like what? might as well get it off your chest if you want to we're all anon here anyway
and obviously i don't know who you mean but if he's anything like the person i knew who used to say stuff like that to me he's a real grade-a douchebag and someone to avoid at all costs
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you don't know what sort of wickedness i'm talking about here, after all
[ But really, even knowing him so briefly, it's as much as he expects from someone so earnest as Cisco. ]
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and maybe it is totally optimistic and naive
but in my experience, the worst people don't question themselves
and they don't don't ask for input
they just do what they want and take what they want and then justify it later
with a lot of mumbo jumbo about having no other options
that's one of the reasons i don't believe in fate
cuz it's the kind of bullshit concept that creeps use to move blame off themselves
and make it sound like every awful thing they do was inevitable
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in my case the matter of destiny is less about what i'll do
and more about what will be done to me
but it's the kind of justification i can see him using
[ whoever that might be. ]
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might as well get it off your chest if you want to
we're all anon here anyway
and obviously i don't know who you mean but
if he's anything like the person i knew who used to say stuff like that to me
he's a real grade-a douchebag and someone to avoid at all costs
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you're certainly right on that point. i would love to avoid him for literally ever
but i can't.
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sounds complicated and fucked up
probably another thing you don't wanna talk about, right?
just taking a guess
well i hope something'll change in the future to solve that
you shouldn't have to be around somebody like that
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thanks for the kind words
good of you to take the time.
[ not that he's surprised. ]