@det.prettyboy; text

[causational]

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!

Comments

<anon>

[11calls]

Okay, first, don't believe any bull about a guy pulling on your hair or being a jerk to you or being an asshole about you or being violent as him liking you. That' a lot of bull they tell people to make them think dumb things like that are okay when they're not.

Second: do they want to be around you? Do they seek out your company?

Third and definitely the hardest: you can always ask. I mean, at least either way then you know.

<anon>

[kievs]

thanks but hes not really like that
hes quiet and weird. he doesnt really talk unless you talk to him first

i mean yeah hes with me all the time but
he kind of has to be because we ran away together and neither of us want to go back home so

ive tried asking but he just says yes immediately like he doesnt have to think about it
but i guess im just worried hes only saying yes for the sake of saying yes
sometimes he just goes along with things and i dont know if its what he really wants

<anon>

[11calls]

Unfortunately, it seems like this is one of those cases where you need to decide if you believe that he's telling the truth.

I would try asking him one last time and telling him that you're not going to ask again, but you expect that he's honest. That way, you're giving him an out.