@det.prettyboy; text

[causational]

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!

Comments

[winscenario]

Could be a bit of both, too. You being obvious, them being perceptive.

Sounds like you have some kind of surprise kink, anon. No judgment, though!
In all seriousness, now. I get that. Surprising your SO can often be half the fun.

[jolting]

Probably. But it's why we work well together.

I wouldn't say that. I just like how they react when I do something unexpected. I love making them happy and us being adventurous together.

Not sure if this is making sense. I tend to lose my thoughts when I think about or talk about my partner.

[winscenario]

No, it's fine. Trust me, you're making perfect sense.

So your main issue is that you suck at keeping things secret, basically. Have you successfully surprised them before, or would this be your first try?

[jolting]

Well. Secret from my partner, anyway.

Maybe. Not always intentionally. But this is my first try at surprising him with something kinky.

He'll definitely love it, though.

[winscenario]

Well, did you succeed before? As they say, practice makes perfect. Knowing you're capable of surprising them— him in some way is half the way there. Now you just have to figure out how to plan this in a way he won't suspect a thing.

From what little you've told me, sounds to me like your guy would love anything you did.

[jolting]

I know he will. That's actually what I love most about him. He sees every part of me and loves it. I'd go on, but I'm saving all the words about how he makes me feel for when I see talk to him. Anyway, he'll definitely know it's me once I get going.

As I said, I'm not subtle.

But even if he figures it out, it's okay. I like how excited he gets when he knows what I'm about to do for him.

[winscenario]

Well, we wouldn't want you to ruin your anonymity completely, so we may as well stop now.

[ He's already suspicious as it is. Not subtle indeed... ]

Any other questions I can answer for you?

[jolting]

[Well, he is trying, but he doesn't really want James to be taken completely by surprise. It may be influenced by past experience when doing so went very badly. As optimistic as he is these days, Victor still prefers James having some idea of what to expect]

Actually, yes.

I couldn't help noticing you didn't discuss leather. Or is it implied in one of those kinks?

[winscenario]

Depends on the amount of leather. Restraints, clothing, accessories, toys and the like, that's a yes. Those full leather masks are a little too much for me personally, though.

[jolting]

Other than blindfolds, I don't think I'd be into anything that would restrict me from seeing his face.

Though the ones they wear at masquerades might be interesting. I'll have to put a pin in that.

[winscenario]

Yeah, those masks are fine. Blindfolds, too. I can see why the full masks would be exciting in terms of restraint and control, but it's a little much for me. Even if I am into both those kinks.

[jolting]

Always good to know your limits.

[winscenario]

I'd say it's one of the most important things, when it comes to kinks.

[jolting]

True.

I think you should know this helped. I'm really looking forward to how this goes.

[winscenario]

I'll be rooting for you, stranger. ;)