@det.prettyboy; text

[causational]

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!

Comments

<anon>

[bottombitch]

you mean my friend?

he kissed me
even though he knew i had a boyfriend

...

anyway a lot has happened since then
he wants to be my boyfriend
but it's kind of a lot to deal with
i'm not really sure what i want
and i don't want to hurt him by
you know
being with him
especially if it's because i'm feeling lonely
and i still have feelings for my ex

<anon>

[11calls]

I think if you're honest about not knowing what it is that you're feeling, you shouldn't feel guilty because he's making the choice to be with you knowing all of that.

<anon>

[bottombitch]

but isn't that really selfish
its kinda like
having my cake and eating it too

<anon>

[11calls]

If you're being upfront and honest with yourself and with him, I don't think you're being selfish.

It's being dishonest that would make you selfish, I think.

<anon>

[bottombitch]

i guess you have a point

so...
maybe i should give him a chance
and see where it goes
but i'm also scared because
he's my best friend and i don't want to lose it in case this
you know
doesn't pan out

<anon>

[11calls]

Yeah, I definitely get the not losing the friendship piece of it. Be honest about that too. Make sure he knows how important it is to you.