@det.prettyboy; text

[causational]

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!

Comments

[deploy]

You've got a point.

I don't know what I want anymore.

[happiertimes]

When it comes to being confused about things, the best thing you can do is separate yourself from the situation entirely. If it turns out to be important enough to return to it, despite whatever consequences come with that, then you've found your answer.

But, if it's causing you this much of an issue, you might want to confront it head on.

Either way, you must make a decision of what you will allow to happen to yourself. Rarely things happen to us that we do not allow in the first place.

[deploy]

Yeah.

I made a mistake. A big one. I won't make it again.

Thanks for all your advice. I honestly appreciate it.

[happiertimes]

Learning from mistakes is a sign of maturity, so I commend you for that.

If you would rather speak in person next time, I can be contacted fairly easily.

[He doesn't do anon. If he's going to say something, he will stand behind it at any time.]

[deploy]

Guess you can teach an old dog new tricks.

Thanks for the offer. I'll keep it in mind.

[He just noticed Cullen's UN now... No way is he going to fess up to any of this as his future CO.]

[happiertimes]

With patience and kindness, anyone can learn anything new. Or necessity.

My door is always open.

[John, there is no way that you could be the worst CO he's had. Not even close. It would take a great deal to even be in the same universe.]