@det.prettyboy; text

[causational]

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!

Comments

<anon>

[talentedscavenger]

It kind of comes across as black and white, at least in the movies that's how it seems.

<anon>

[11calls]

90% of the time, movies are wrong about what people want in a relationship and how relationships work. Besides, they never really bring up people on the non-hetrosexual spectrum. Or people who are asexual or demisexual or what not.

<anon>

[talentedscavenger]

I wouldn't know. I haven't seen a lot of movies, and my friends are 'fixing' that for me.

But, I mean, it seems like it's black and white or maybe a bit gray when it comes to relationships and sometimes it's either the end all or be all.

<anon>

[11calls]

Yeah, in movies it is. But in real life it's definitely shades of gray all around.

It's definitely not the end all be all in real life. If you don't think you need one, then you don't. But be open to that changing if you find the right person.

<anon>

[talentedscavenger]

.Isn't that a different movie? Shades of grey or something?

I don't think I do, but I do miss the closeness of having that person you like and...I guess it's not for me.

<anon>

[11calls]

That movie's garbage and we don't talk about that movie and if you're interested in kinky sex there are way better resources out there than that guy being an abusive jerk.

But it could just be that you haven't found the right person in the right circumstances, I guess? I mean, if you say you miss being close to someone, that's what it sounds like.

<anon>

[talentedscavenger]

....no, I think I'm good. No need to learn any of that.

Maybe? I don't know. I've never been the type of person to put stock into meeting the "right" person in the "right" circumstance.

<anon>

[11calls]

Well, it's going to be up to you. You're the only one who can decide if it's what you want or need.