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Eddie Thawne ([personal profile] causational) wrote in [community profile] riverview2018-04-24 06:42 pm

@det.prettyboy; text

Hey everyone! I don't post on here super often, but I've been laid up for a week now and I'm going a little crazy. Total cabin fever.

I used to see forums like this on the internet back home, and I thought it might be kind of fun here too, so I thought I'd give it a try, because reading those forums was always a lot of fun.

So, Crowd-Sourced Relationship Advice!

I turned on anonymous posting on here, so you can make a fake username and submit a description of a problem that you're having in your relationships, either romantic or at work or whatever, and other anonymous people can give you advice!

Or you can stay logged in on your real account. Up to you!
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[personal profile] winscenario 2018-05-06 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
[ Aaaaalllllright you know what, sounds like there's a lot more to that story from reading the replies from that other "anon". So, you know, probably for the best that Jim doesn't try to give any more advice on that point. ]

Sometimes you're just not meant to stay with some people. Cross paths, sure, but if staying together can be harmful for you both, then distance might be for the best.

How long has it been since you and your other friend parted ways? Maybe it's been long enough. Maybe he's ready to move on and try to go back to being friends. There's no harm in asking him, at least.
talentedscavenger: (Default)

[personal profile] talentedscavenger 2018-05-07 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
After this, I think it's for the best.

...A few weeks, I don't know if he's ready to talk. I don't want to reach out and have him not say anything in return. I should wait for him to approach me....right?
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[personal profile] winscenario 2018-05-07 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, he's not my friend. I might ask, if it were me. It's not like a quick text is that pushy or invasive, and if he still doesn't want to talk to you, I'm sure he'll just tell you promptly.

But you should do what you think is right in your situation. Don't just take my advice blindly. You're the one who knows what happened between you two, so you should know best what to do.